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|
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Front-End
|
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<em>/ 2023</em>
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<a href="/categories/Hexo/">
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<a href="/categories/EQ/">
|
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|
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EQ
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Hexo
|
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|
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|
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M20 4l-2 14.5l-6 2l-6-2L4 4z"></path><path d="M7.5 8h3v8l-2-1"></path><path d="M16.5 8H14a.5.5 0 0 0-.5.5v3a.5.5 0 0 0 .5.5h1.423a.5.5 0 0 1 .495.57L15.5 15.5l-2 .5"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M22 12.54c-1.804-.345-2.701-1.08-3.523-2.94c-.487.696-1.102 1.568-.92 2.4c.028.238-.32 1.002-.557 1H3c0 5.208 3.164 7 6.196 7c4.124.022 7.828-1.376 9.854-5c1.146-.101 2.296-1.505 2.95-2.46z"></path><path d="M5 10h3v3H5z"></path><path d="M8 10h3v3H8z"></path><path d="M11 10h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M8 7h3v3H8z"></path><path d="M11 7h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M11 4h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M4.571 18c1.5 0 2.047-.074 2.958-.78"></path><path d="M10 16v.01"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M4 17v1a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h12a2 2 0 0 0 2-2v-1"></path><path d="M8 16h8"></path><path d="M8.322 12.582l7.956.836"></path><path d="M8.787 9.168l7.826 1.664"></path><path d="M10.096 5.764l7.608 2.472"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M4 17v1a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h12a2 2 0 0 0 2-2v-1"></path><path d="M8 16h8"></path><path d="M8.322 12.582l7.956.836"></path><path d="M8.787 9.168l7.826 1.664"></path><path d="M10.096 5.764l7.608 2.472"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M20 4l-2 14.5l-6 2l-6-2L4 4z"></path><path d="M7.5 8h3v8l-2-1"></path><path d="M16.5 8H14a.5.5 0 0 0-.5.5v3a.5.5 0 0 0 .5.5h1.423a.5.5 0 0 1 .495.57L15.5 15.5l-2 .5"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M20 4l-2 14.5l-6 2l-6-2L4 4z"></path><path d="M7.5 8h3v8l-2-1"></path><path d="M16.5 8H14a.5.5 0 0 0-.5.5v3a.5.5 0 0 0 .5.5h1.423a.5.5 0 0 1 .495.57L15.5 15.5l-2 .5"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M22 12.54c-1.804-.345-2.701-1.08-3.523-2.94c-.487.696-1.102 1.568-.92 2.4c.028.238-.32 1.002-.557 1H3c0 5.208 3.164 7 6.196 7c4.124.022 7.828-1.376 9.854-5c1.146-.101 2.296-1.505 2.95-2.46z"></path><path d="M5 10h3v3H5z"></path><path d="M8 10h3v3H8z"></path><path d="M11 10h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M8 7h3v3H8z"></path><path d="M11 7h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M11 4h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M4.571 18c1.5 0 2.047-.074 2.958-.78"></path><path d="M10 16v.01"></path></g></svg>
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<a href="/categories/Hexo/">
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<a href="/categories/EQ/">
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M4 17v1a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h12a2 2 0 0 0 2-2v-1"></path><path d="M8 16h8"></path><path d="M8.322 12.582l7.956.836"></path><path d="M8.787 9.168l7.826 1.664"></path><path d="M10.096 5.764l7.608 2.472"></path></g></svg>
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<span>
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</span>
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<li class="">
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<a href="/categories/Hexo/">
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M20 4l-2 14.5l-6 2l-6-2L4 4z"></path><path d="M7.5 8h3v8l-2-1"></path><path d="M16.5 8H14a.5.5 0 0 0-.5.5v3a.5.5 0 0 0 .5.5h1.423a.5.5 0 0 1 .495.57L15.5 15.5l-2 .5"></path></g></svg>
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<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" viewBox="0 0 24 24"><g fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M22 12.54c-1.804-.345-2.701-1.08-3.523-2.94c-.487.696-1.102 1.568-.92 2.4c.028.238-.32 1.002-.557 1H3c0 5.208 3.164 7 6.196 7c4.124.022 7.828-1.376 9.854-5c1.146-.101 2.296-1.505 2.95-2.46z"></path><path d="M5 10h3v3H5z"></path><path d="M8 10h3v3H8z"></path><path d="M11 10h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M8 7h3v3H8z"></path><path d="M11 7h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M11 4h3v3h-3z"></path><path d="M4.571 18c1.5 0 2.047-.074 2.958-.78"></path><path d="M10 16v.01"></path></g></svg>
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||||
<div class="ellipsis">
|
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|
||||
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|
||||
|
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|
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83
source/_posts/A Guide to Effective Dialogue.md
Normal file
83
source/_posts/A Guide to Effective Dialogue.md
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|
|
@ -0,0 +1,83 @@
|
|||
---
|
||||
title: 有效对话指南
|
||||
top: 0
|
||||
categories:
|
||||
- EQ
|
||||
status: done
|
||||
---
|
||||
|
||||
卡耐基说过：要说服别人同意你的观点，你就要让他觉得这是他自己的观点。也就是说，本质上没有人真正被别人说服，听或者不听都是他们自己的主动选择
|
||||
|
||||
# 目的
|
||||
|
||||
沟通目的无非两个：
|
||||
|
||||
- 让对方认同我们的观点
|
||||
- 或者按我们说的做
|
||||
|
||||
# 搞定情绪
|
||||
|
||||
大多数人的立场和行为，是由情绪决定的，对方不喜欢你，你再怎么努力也很难说服他，只有他认可你这个人你的话他才会听。所以动之以理之前要先小之以轻，你把他情绪搞定了，沟通也就成功了一半
|
||||
|
||||
## 夸 - 细节
|
||||
|
||||
不吝赞美，就一个字“夸”，具体怎么夸呢？
|
||||
|
||||
细节就是不要太笼统：
|
||||
|
||||
- 😭 你穿的真好看
|
||||
- 😊 今天的上衣显得你很白，太美了
|
||||
|
||||
## 夸 - 对比
|
||||
|
||||
- 😭 你今天穿的真好看
|
||||
- 😊 你今天穿的真好看，一般人可传不出这种气质
|
||||
|
||||
## 我能理解你，换我也生气
|
||||
|
||||
接纳对方的负面情绪，把双方情绪拉回到安全范围内。
|
||||
|
||||
## 肢体同步
|
||||
|
||||
如果你的肢体动作跟对方同步，它会产生一种被共情的感觉
|
||||
|
||||
- 对方说的火热，身体前倾，伺机凑近
|
||||
- 思考一到两秒钟再反馈，这个简单的停顿
|
||||
|
||||
# 只陈述不评论
|
||||
|
||||
事实不会引起争议
|
||||
|
||||
比如：孩子考试没及格是事实，说他笨死了就是评论了。
|
||||
|
||||
再比如：你这周上班迟到两次，这是事实，说你经常迟到就是评论了。
|
||||
|
||||
## 评论副词
|
||||
|
||||
尽量规避一些跟评论相关的糊的频率副词，比如
|
||||
- 笨
|
||||
- 懒
|
||||
- 坏
|
||||
- 总是
|
||||
- 永远
|
||||
- 每次
|
||||
|
||||
# 保持开放性
|
||||
|
||||
还拿上面的例子，这些话对方只能回答好或者不好，然后结束沟通
|
||||
|
||||
- 孩子没及格，老爸说下次必须及格。
|
||||
- 你上班迟到，老板说再迟到扣薪水。
|
||||
|
||||
如果换成开放式沟通：
|
||||
|
||||
- 老爸说咱们聊聊哪些题没有搞清楚
|
||||
- 老板说生活上是不是遇到了什么问题，没着我可以帮你
|
||||
|
||||
# 反馈事实
|
||||
|
||||
这些话对方不仅听着舒服，而且能给你反馈事实。具体怎么开放呢？咱们只需要记住两个关键词
|
||||
|
||||
- 问题开放：不要让对方只能回答是或否，例如：像愿闻其详、展开说说、欢迎补充之类
|
||||
- 让出话语权：真正的沟通高手，是让对方觉得自己很牛，主导聊天的往往是能提出问题的人，或者让别人多说的人
|
||||
|
||||
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